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Procrastination!! The Story of the World's Biggest Procrastinator...

by Cerries Hickmott
(North Wales, UK)

'Chloe' Necklace

'Chloe' Necklace

'Chloe' Necklace 'Aphrodite' Necklace 'Rosa' Bracelet 'Alexandra' Earrings

Hi guys,

My name is Cerries, and I am from the UK. I really wanted to share my story with you all, and tell you about what has been stopping me from living my jewellery business dream...

First let me start by telling you that I started to 'make' jewellery when I was just 5 years old... 21 years ago!

It has been a lifelong passion of mine, and whilst I have often dabbled in other art and craft interests, it has been the one love that I always return to...

A couple of years ago, I decided to take my hobby to the next level. I started doing jewellery shows, and craft fairs, and I built my own website.

I did have sales at most of the events that I took part in, which although should have been an encouraging boost in my new venture, something just didn't feel right.

I wasn't satisfied, and I could not figure out why...

Then one day, it hit me. I had started to make jewellery that I thought people wanted to buy, and not what I really felt passionate about making. When designing and creating a piece of jewellery, I would always have the 'sale' in mind.

I was making a product that I believed had 'saleability', and not something that I truly enjoyed creating. No wonder I felt uninspired after an event that I had sold my work at... it didn't really feel like 'my work'.

I turned a corner then. I decided, about 6 months ago, to start making jewellery that I REALLY wanted to make. I mean... really let go, and just go with what feels right to me.

I figured that if I worked with passion in my soul, it would come across in the end product that I create. So I set about experimenting, finding what felt real to me.

I began to make jewellery that I myself would want to wear, and by doing so my confidence in myself began to grow. If I felt special wearing a piece of my own jewellery, then surely others would, too....

But here comes the sticking point! I discovered that the type of jewellery I like to make (and wear) is not particularly technical, and there is not a huge deal of skill involved in making my favourite pieces.

I discovered that I have a passion for Swarovski Crystal, and my favourite creations were those that were very simple, and not fussy. Even though I loved the look and feel of the jewellery I now feel passionate about making, I often wondered whether I could legitimately call myself a 'jewellery artist'.

I would often compare myself to artists that spend hours and hours creating just one piece, and somehow my work felt insignificant.

But here is the key! I soon realised that comparing myself to other artists was not only self-sabotage, but also highly unproductive. My lack of confidence in just going with what I felt was right was really holding me back, and I knew I had to change my viewpoint on the matter.

Some of my most successful pieces have also been the simplest - just a single Swarovski pendant on a Sterling Silver chain can be the perfect finishing touch to an outfit. I realised that not every potential customer is looking for jewellery that is elaborate and complex - sometimes simplicity is just what is needed.

And it wasn't a matter of not having the skill to produce more detailed designs - the pieces I had been making for years were extremely time-consuming and intricate, with a lot of skill and practice involved to make each one.

I evaluated my inventory, and now I really believe that the jewellery I create is a reflection of me. And because I now really enjoy what I do, I believe that this enthusiasm really shines through when I talk about my jewellery to potential customers.

So the moral of the story is... I learned not to procrastinate by ignoring my instincts, and to just jump in and get creative! I have learnt to be brave, and not be afraid of others being quick to judge my work.

I have now realised that jewellery is very much a case of personal taste and preference, and there will be those who decide to purchase my work (and enjoy wearing it), and those that won't.

But one thing is for sure...I will continue to feed my passion and will always follow my instincts.

Happy creating everyone!

You can visit me at the following:

Cerries Hickmott
Carabijoux
Carabijoux blog
Carabijoux on etsy

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Procrastination!! The Story of the World's Biggest Procrastinator...

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Procrastinator
by: Gloria

Good for you Cerries! Your article has boosted my confidence to keep doing my 'off the wall' one of a kind art pieces! I too have been dragging my feet about doing what I love, because it might not appeal to the masses. My creations will appeal to those of eclectic, artistic, or gothic tastes, but that's ok. Afterall, they need jewelry too! Thanks for writing about our story.

rightly said!
by: nupur arora

Hi cerrise,
upon reading your article, I was forced to reflect on some of my work in the past six years since i started my business.
I am a self taught jewelry designer and most of my early creations involved stringing different beads and gemstones into one of a kind pieces. As i looked at the work of other jewelry artists, I kept saying to myself, that my work would not qualify for a craft show like the american craft council because there is no "craft".

I have a dear friend who is a bead weaver and does very intricate stitch patterns effortlessly. One day we were neighbors at a craft show and that is where she saw the full extent of my work. Her reaction was "How do you even think of such simple things?" I could never make anything like that!!

That really pleasantly surprised me because i always thought of her work that if she can do such complicated stitches, she could totally do something like stringing beads!! right? Wrong!
Our brain always thinks of the most COMPLICATED solutions first. Then we edit things out and polish and fine tune the material and come up with the simple form. So simplicity is not the lack of thought, it is the most advanced form of it. most people's brains are not trained enough to let go and live by the adage "less is more" but if you are blessed with that gift, rejoice in it and make a niche for yourself!

A lot of women do not want to wear "statement pieces" they are just looking for simple everyday pieces that complement their wardrobe and overpower it. It is very popular in the Asian, Caucasian and petite women, here in New York, to only be attracted to dainty, fresh looking pieces for work or everyday wear. So do not ignore the fact that there is a market for you out there. ALso as time and your taste will change, evolve and grow, so will your creations. As long as you believe in what you are making with your hands, people will always connect with the passion behind it.
There is nothing wrong with keeping the "sale- ability" in mind, it just means you know your market well and can cater to their taste. Thats wonderful! just try to find the balance between that and staying true to yourself!

Good luck in your journey!
nupur arora
www.mantracatalog.blogspot.com
www.mymantraforbeauty.com
what is 'your' mantra?

I agree
by: Anonymous

I have found out the same as you!
It is so much more fun to make jewelry if we really like what we make!

Good luck with your sales!

Are we twins?!
by: Barbara

Dear Cerries,
You have very elegantly said exactly how I have been feeling. I used to do wire wrapping & wire sculpture & not to sound arrogant, but was very good at it.
Just not happy.Not my style. I too like simple jewelry. I am just starting to make what I like. And now I'm excited & happy.
Hope we both find much success & fulfillment!
Thank you so much for your post. It's so reassuring to know I'm not alone in my feelings

Hear! Hear!
by: Lisa of WildGift Designs

Well put. Now if I can just stop my own self-sabotage and follow my true inspiration and stop feeling like I am not good enough... Thank you so much for sharing this it really hit a nerve in a good way. Cheers, Lisa
wildgift.etsy.com
wildgiftdesigns.etsy.com

Thank you!
by: Gissele Michal

I appreciate your post and also love your jewelry. Reading the additional posts was also helpful. I feel the same way as far as letting go and being creative. I have found myself in the same situation with creating what others want and not what I want and I end up creating, "Nothing". I will then go and create from within for a while and end up in the same people-pleasing rut. Your blog is confirmation for me.....Thank You!

Gissele,

Jewelry Creations by Gissele Michal
www.gisselemichal.com

Thank you!
by: Amy

This is just what I needed to hear. I am new at this, and have been a bit overwhelmed lately. I had just decided the other day that (I thought) I needed to find my style/groove & do that, but I was concerned "will others like it"?. Your words are an encouragement to me, thank you. I love your Chloe necklace!!!

Hi!
by: Cerries (Carabijoux)

Hi ladies!

Wow what a wonderful response to my story! It has been truly magical reading your replies...I honestly thought it was just me feeling this way!

Since writing this article, I have been working really hard on my Etsy shop, and I have had so, so many kind comments on my work, and the overall 'style' of my jewellery. This feedback has given me so much more confidence, and I am now starting to promote the shop on Etsy, so I'm very interested to see where it takes me.

I have found that selling the simple (but stunning!) pieces online MUST have fabulous photographs. I have spent years trying to perfect my photographs, but have always found the simple pieces the hardest to pull off. I have found that natural daylight, adjusting the white balance on my camera and the tripod have pretty much got me there now! I would love to know what you guys think of the transformation!

Anyway...much love and hugs to you all! I am so glad you found my story interesting..I will check back for replies often! :0)

Cerries xxx
www.etsy.com/shop/carabijoux
http://carabijoux.blogspot.com

Thanks
by: Barbara

Dear Cerries, I think we all felt we were the only ones. Thanks for your posting.

Your post has helped me begin creating again!
by: Ann Widner

Hi Cerries,

I've had my jewelry business for three years now, and I, too, have been feeling stuck lately because I've been comparing myself with other jewelry makers. For the last few months I've been thinking that instead of just making my simple photo pendants and stringing them on black cording, I needed to use my pendants as focals for complicated multi-strand necklaces. I truly have tried making some, and I just don't have that gift. It's gotten me so discouraged that for a while I actually stopped creating altogether.

Your post here helped me realize that my gift is in the original photographs that I use to create my photo jewelry, not in stringing them with lots of beads and chain. Photography is truly my passion, and I don't want my photographs to be overpowered by too many jewelry components. So I'm returning to my simplicity!

Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. By the number of comments you've gotten, you really have helped a lot of people, myself included. By the way, I love your etsy shop and your blog ~~ your jewelry is beautiful!

Sincerely,
Ann Widner
Little Visions Photo & Jewelry Art
www.annwidner.com

Procrastinator too..
by: Joeline

Thank You so much for sharing your story! I too started making jewellery that I thought would sell well, instead of what I actually ENJOYED making. Well, NOT ANYMORE! I'll stick to what makes ME happy, after all, thats what its all about, right?!

Thank you...
by: Anonymous

Thank you so much for sharing your story. If procrastination were a paid vocation, I would be rich. Your story hit right on the mark with me and has been an encouragement and inspiration to follow my own jewelry making path too. Thank you.

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