Curvy Girl Jewelry

by Mara Nesbitt
(Curvy Girl Jewelry)

Crystalline Pearl Bracelet, generously-sized 8.5

Crystalline Pearl Bracelet, generously-sized 8.5"


Specializing in Jewelry
in Larger Sizes


I opened my first Etsy shop a year ago, selling jewelry made from wire, glass beads, stones and other items that I incorporated into my pieces.

I called it Pastiche Jewelry, reflecting the eclectic selection of materials that I use.

Over the past year I've had moderate success in my shop, but not as much as I would have liked.

I started going to workshops in real life and "attended" Etsy workshops on their website.

I decided that I'd have to differentiate myself from all the other Etsy jewelry designers and sellers.

I should tell you at this point that I'm a big woman. Not just big, supersize big.

My preferred descriptor is "fat". I don't take it as a pejorative anymore, although for much of my life people could make me feel like a failure when they used that word to describe me.

I became involved with the size-acceptance movement and learned to embrace the word fat.

It's only one of the words that speak to what I am. I'm also beautiful, sexy, smart, creative and funny.

tough enough black chain necklace by mara nesbitt
Are You Tough Enough black chain and
big pearl necklace by Mara Nesbitt.


Understanding the Experience of
Being a Large Person


In my previous profession, I was a Licensed Massage Therapist for 30 years.

I chose to work with other fat people because it can be a cold, cruel world when you've got bulges and creases and you feel like no one wants to touch you.

I've heard former clients tell me that their previous massage therapists would give them diet advice while massaging them or would only touch the center third of their body, ignoring their lumps and bumps.

I wanted to make a peaceful, safe place where a client could disrobe and not feel judged on their size.

I didn't lack for big clients who wanted me to help them feel better.

At the same time in my life, I taught Yoga for Large People classes and made two very successful videos with me demonstrating various poses.

The poses, or asanas, had been adapted to suit big bellies, butts and breasts. When I couldn't find a traditional yoga pose for a certain part of the body, I consulted with other medical professionals or simply made something up that worked.

In my classes, my students didn't feel judged by smaller students thinking, "I'm glad I don't look like her."

Choosing a Name for
My New Jewelry Business


After my last Etsy workshop I decided that "my" population wasn't getting served with appropriate jewelry, just as they hadn't been served by other massage therapists or yoga classes.

After writing a list of all the positive terms I could think of that described people who were larger than average, I came up with the name "Curvy Girl Jewelry".

Normally I prefer the word "women" over "girls" because I feel the word girl most properly describes someone under the age of 20 or so, but girl seemed a little sexier in all senses of the word.

So now I had a name.

I looked up "Curvy Girl Jewelry" on Etsy and found that no one else had used it to name their shop.

I used that name to open my second shop with nothing more than a "site under construction" message.

stylish medic alert bracelet by mara nesbitt
Help Me (I'm Stylish)! medic alert bracelet
by Mara Nesbitt.


Researching My
New Jewelry Niche Market


I wanted to do some market research to help guide my efforts in designing and making jewelry specifically for the plus-size market.

I know what I like to wear, but my tastes don't suit every other large woman's taste.

By the way, I wanted big men to know that I could design jewelry for them too, even though they weren't a girl.

I wrote a ten-question survey and posted it on surveymonkey.com just a few days ago.

The first question was "What kind of jewelry do you wear?" and the possible answers were "big and bold", "dainty and delicate", "the more colorful the better", "simple and classic", "something that gets me noticed in a crowd", "dressy for formal events", "casual for everyday" and "I don't wear jewelry".

You can read the other questions yourself (and take the survey if you consider yourself a curvy girl or guy) by going to http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/HWJ9533.

(However, please don't copy my survey or use the questions for your own purposes.)

I sent email to every big woman or man that I know, inviting them to participate in the survey.

I explained to my survey respondants that if they gave me their name, email and home address I would put their name in a drawing for a free pair of earrings.

Of the 22 people who filled out the survey so far, 14 have given me this information.

Now I can add those names to my mailing list (except for one person who asked not to be added) for a time when I want to send out information about my jewelry.

Their responses are guiding me in what to make next. "Big and Bold" has beaten out "Dainty and Delicate" by 57% to 38%.

The survey was set up so that more than one box could be checked for most questions.

I also asked what their price points were for each type of jewelry so now I know how to choose my materials and stay under what they say they're willing to pay.

I'd love to have more feedback so I can make better use of my time and resources.

Please ask your big friends if they'd help me design jewelry for them by taking the survey.

Setting Up
Curvy Girl Jewelry


I registered my website, CurvyGirlJewelry.com, with GoDaddy and simply parked it until I have time to spend designing it.

The last thing I've done is add three pieces of jewelry to my CurvyGirlJewelry.etsy.com shop so I can show *something* of my work to interested potential buyers.

Over time I'll make and add more jewelry to my shop and see if my market research is paying off.

Curvy Girl Jewelry's
Shop Announcement


Welcome to Curvy Girl Jewelry. My mission is to complement your size, not ignore it.

I make big and bold jewelry with classic design in casual, every day styles.

I make big chunky necklaces that are long enough, bracelets that go all the way around without squeezing your wrist, earrings that flatter the rounder face, pendants that are proportionate to a larger person's size, images of fat, beautiful goddesses and mermaids, rings that fit plump fingers, anklets for plentiful ankles and pins that express a joie de vivre.

I Welcome Your Feedback!


I welcome feedback from anyone who cares to give it to me - on my shop appearance, my market research and my desire to serve my own community.

Thank you for reading this. And thank you Rena!

Mara Nesbitt
Curvy Girl Jewelry etsy shop

Comments for
Curvy Girl Jewelry

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Wonderful Jewelry Niche
by: Rena

Mara, I think you've got a fantastic niche market.

Also, I think your understanding of your clientele - along with your wonderful, positive size-acceptance perspective - will help you grow a very enthusiastic fan base.

Jewelry customers love artists who truly "get" their wants and needs, which you do on a very personal level. I love how you created your previous careers (massage therapy and yoga classes) around your sensitivity to the needs of your clientele.

In fact, I bet many of your former massage and yoga customers still think of you often and would be thrilled to buy your jewelry, and recommend it to their friends as well!

Regarding feedback for your Curvy Girl Jewelry Etsy shop:

You've probably already thought of this, but a lovely, luscious "Curvy Girl Jewelry" banner at the top of your Etsy shop would be a valuable way to capture attention and interest when people land in your storefront.

Also, for one of the bracelets in your shop, the listing mentions, "This bracelet fits someone with a wrist up to 8 1/2 inches, but if you have a smaller wrist I can make one to fit you". But how about a curvy girl whose wrist is bigger than 8 1/2 inches? I remember making a bracelet for a customer whose wrist was a little over 9 inches. You may want to be sure that even the curviest gals don't feel that they are too big for your jewelry.

In your Etsy shop profile, I really like how you mention that you are also a curvy girl and feel great about it. Your customers will feel a connection with you right away, and your "feel good" vibes will be contagious. They will love your encouragement, understanding, and positive outlook.

I think you're off to a fantastic start, Mara, and your survey to find out even more about what your clients want is excellent.

Is a Curvy Girl blog in the works? I think a regular dose of your positive approach to size-acceptance would be very addictive to your customers!

Thank you for sharing your Curvy Girl story with us. I found it very uplifting, and I am moved by the caring and sensitivity you always have for your clientele.

Sister to all sizes
by: Rita Juhlin

I like your shop name, it applies to all sizes. I’m not in favor of labels or even groups but there certainly nothing wrong with niche marketing. I would encourage you to size in small, medium and large; just like the major retailers do.

With too much emphasis on plus sized products you may be turning your back on the “little” people. I’m glad you are doing your research and not just jumping in with fingers crossed.

I might mention that I know a couple ladies in your community, as you call it, that wouldn’t buy anything but small and dainty. Me, I’m in the middle and love big and bold.

The most important rule I follow is designing from inside me and design from what inspires me because what I create is part of me. I don’t create jewelry for money but it’s very rewarding when someone makes a purchase.

Thanks for sharing your quest!

Wonderful promotion and direct dialogue
by: Essa Adams

You simply explain the process and thought you have given to the new line for your jewelry. I truly enjoy to receive products, clothing, books, services from those who appreciate my body-type and life style due to this difference. Thank you for seeing the way to offer category jewelry design too.

Kudos!
by: Diane - earthnskystudio

I think you've got a great idea here and it looks like you're off to a fantastic start! Good for you! Sending wishes for much success in your new endeavor! ^_^

Thank you!
by: Mara Nesbitt

Rena,

Thank you so much for putting my story on your page and for your encouragement and insight. I've corrected the wording on that bracelet and am going to start a blog. On Facebook, I've asked for suggestions on which site to start a blog. I'll let you know when I've got some content going.

Rita - I appreciate your comments. Allies of big people are very important to us and I count you as one of those.

Essa - your comments mean a lot, coming from a new FB friend. You'll see more from me on my profile as I put more items into my etsy shop and FB business page.

Diane - Thank you for your cheery uplifting comment and kitty ears :).

comment
by: Ruth

wow - I *like* you...you sound like me!

Love the idea for jewelry for us larger, happy women. Definately need jewelry to scale. Same nice materials just in a larger format.

I didn't know there were massage therapists specializing in larger size people -- the reason you listed is why I've never gone for a 2nd (or 3rd) visit.

Welcome and wishing you much success.

Ruth
Marietta, GA

Love it
by: Alice in Elk Grove

I took my first class in jewelry making in Sept. 2007. I discovered that I could finally make cute/pretty/elegant costume jewelry that fit me. No longer were there bracelets and necklaces that were too small for me. I think you're Etsy store is fantastic. Large women like jewelry too! I wish you great success.

Curvy Girl Jewelry
by: Janet

I have been making jewelry for about 15 years. I do festivals and other events and inevitably there is always a 'curvy' woman who looks at my jewelry and says "I bet you don't have my size"?
I make the majority of my jewelry so that I can adjust/lengthen it to fit almost any body type. I also make anklets sized up to 12" and even they can be adjusted.

Every woman wants to look good and its up those of us who make jewelry to be sure that we consider all body types when we create.

Janet
www.picturetrail.com/earart

Thank goodness!
by: Lorian

I don't wear jewelry often because it just doesnt fit! I am a bigger woman, but mostly have a really big neck and shoulders. I like necklaces, but don't necessarily want the "rope" ones in order to actually have one that will fit around my neck and drop more than 1/2 inch! lol

Very excited to see your shop! I found www.CurvyGirlsJewelry.com searched for yours just now...is that you?

How i feel about it.
by: Maria Hatfield

I just Love You !!!! For everything you stand for and for not being afraid to admit it. Im also a curvy girl. And i cant wait to see what you have. I make jewelry too, but hardly make any for myself. thanks Cheryl

Thank you ...
by: Chelsea

On a personal level, your words are the confidence boost I've needed. I've been feeling so dispirited lately ... my girlfriend recently had a minor surgery, and her *anesthesiologist* took several minutes out of actually doing his job to lecture us about our size (she's a 20, I'm a 22). He actually told her that her insulin resistance was due to her weight ... which, as anyone who's familiar with the workings of insulin knows, is a laughable error. SO many people truly think that there is nothing to health but weight -- to hear that there is a wellness professional (you!) who cares and complements and truly believes there's more to well-being than being within an accepted body size really restored a bit of collapsed faith.

And on a more topical note, I am happy to be in your niche market! Thank you so much for this wonderful business and for setting a so-rare, so-precious example of loving and claiming your body. I'm off to take your survey now!

Thanks again!

Appreciation
by: Anonymous

I want to voice my appreciation for all your comments. Here are my (short) responses to everyone who took the time to write:

Ruth - It's not easy to find a size-positive massage therapist but it's a growing segment of massage practice (ha!).

When interviewing potential massage therapists, make sure they're licensed if your state requires it. Ask if they have an armless chair and a wider table. Tell them how much you weigh so they're not surprised when you walk in, and ask if they've had experience working people of your size. You'll catch their vibes either positive or negative. Good luck!

Alice - thank you so much for your complement on my store. I'm really eager for feedback to make it better. Please make me a favorite of yours- it shows credibility with potential clients.

Janet - thanks for making jewelry that fits a range of sizes. Too often people in fashion forget about us big women or make their sizes (including jewelry) too small. Keep it up!

Lorian - yep, that's my website. There is no content on it yet - I just parked the name a couple of weeks ago. There's a "Curvy Girl Says" blog on wordpress that I started a few days ago but I'm waiting for a book that might interest everyone here ("Blogging for bliss : crafting your own online journal : a guide for crafters, artists & creatives of all kinds" / Tara Frey). Don't want to make mistakes in the process! I'll let Rena know when my blog and website are up and running and hope you all come to visit. I'm planning on having more content than just jewelry talk.

Cheryl - love you back! You deserve to make some beautiful jewelry for yourself but if you'd prefer me to do it, let me know :)

Chelsea - I hate it when people add their opinions when they're not wanted especially if they couch them in "health" terms. Often doctors have a worse opinion of fat people than we do of ourselves. Thanks for taking the survey and I encourage everyone else to take it too. The more data I have about what curvy people want to wear, the better.

I'd like to hold you all in my arms and tell you how much your comments have meant to me.

Mara

Curvy Girl Jewelry
by: Mermaid's Purse

Well...nothing has kept or slowed you down because of size. Excellent..love your attitude. I Like the name of your company, it's catchy and easy to remember. The niche or concept is pretty wide open..very fortunate. Now do all the pieces have to be chuncky, I don't think so. Being large myself I like what the thin girls like, I just want it to fit me. So in my jewelry making I make sure I have LARGE+ sizes as well. Best wishes to you and Much success. It's funny Did you know your name in Hebrew means bitter? Certainly not what you are...you energetic, caring, nice and ready to Rock this company. Get your site up soon.

Fair Winds and Calm Seas,
Deborah Leon
www.mermaidspurseseaglass.com

Chutzpah
by: Carole Ivy

I applaud your ingenuity and creativity Mara. You are a woman who seizes a challenge and takes it to new heights. You inspire and give "everyone" a boost with your indomitable spirit. I appreciate your chutzpah and courage dear neighbor!

You go girl!!
by: Tricia - Bead Booty

Mara, you ROCK!! I peeked into your Etsy shop and noticed that it's chock full of gorgeous, bold design and fun color. I especially like the Bakelite and Lucite necklace. And I adore your shop name...to me Curvy Girl Jewelry says sexy and confident. I wish you much success with this very special endeavor!

Only two more days until the earring drawing!
by: Mara Nesbitt

Hello you lovely crafters,

There are only two more days to be entered in the earring giveaway. I'll be randomly drawing one name from the responses to my survey about what type(s) of jewelry Curvy Girls prefer.

If you haven't already taken the survey, please do so as soon as possible. Remember, if you want your name entered, you must leave contact information in question #9. You can find the survey at:

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/HWJ9533

As of today, I've had 68 wonderful people take the time to answer my questions. Let's make it 75 before the 15th!

Thank you so much, Mara

More about Mara's Curvy Girl etsy shop setup
by: Rena

Update: See how Mara got her cool custom banner made for her new etsy shop: How a Custom Banner Was Created for Curvy Girl Jewelry etsy shop.

Wow, I love you as well!
by: Amanda Elias

I was so moved by this article, that I am posting for the very first time!

Mara,
I started making my own jewelry a while back because I too couldn't find chokers, bracelets, rings or anklets that fit me! (and not just in a style to suit my picky tastes) I only wish I had thought of that niche lol! Good for you and I'll support you, in any way I can. :) Your stuff is beautiful!!
I'm new to making jewelry to sell. I inadvertently make my pieces too large for the average or small gal, because I test them on myself! I noticed this only recently when friends wanted to try on my pieces... I've had to look up sizing for my necklaces etc, so my chokers don't fit as a matinée length on everyone else. :P

Anyway, I want to follow you on any of your blogs, FB, Twitter etc.. tell me where! :)

Thanks for the confidence,
Amanda

www.amandaelias.com


p.s. to Rena, I have been spending about 3+ hours a day reading anything and everything you've written and posted from other artists. I have learned so much and so, THANK-YOU!

Have you made your website yet?
by: Amanda Elias

I should have probably just googled your name to see if you have a site. hah

I wanted to offer some place to make a really easy and nice looking site, that has a free e-commerce option so you can sell direct from your site.

I have tried wix.com, webz.com and now weebly.com. Weebly gave me the easiest and nicest site, with free e-commerce, free site too if you don't mind their little banner at the bottom.... I made my site in just a day. It's easy to tweak...
I could go on and on about the great features they have on this site builder compared to others, but perhaps you'll see for yourself. :)

My best to you!
Amanda

www.amandaelias.com

@Amanda
by: Rena

Amanda, I'm so thrilled to hear that you've found so much helpful info here!

I too am always learning and being inspired by the generously shared jewelry brainpower and experiences here!

It's nice to have you here with us. :o)

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